Breastfeeding a toddler or beyond during #lockdown? The best of times and the...
An image from the app 'Forest - Stay focused' which can help you set nursing limits. It’s been a challenging month for many different reasons. But never in the history of natural-term breastfeeding,...
View Article35 activities for children during #StayAtHome
Every day since the #StayAtHome order began in the UK, I have been posting a daily activity for the children of volunteers of the Association of Breastfeeding Mothers. Our amazing volunteers have been...
View ArticleToddler twiddling
If you spend 10 minutes in a social media group where breastfeeding older children is the norm, you’ll come across the topic of toddler twiddling.Toddlers enjoy fiddling generally: the little plastic...
View ArticleLactation cookery or lactation crookery? Why I’m worried about lactation...
Two of my favourite things in the world are lactation and cookies, so you’d think that ‘lactation cookies’ would be my dream. Sadly, this couldn’t be much further from the truth.“But what harm can...
View ArticleNewborn breast refusal: why didn't my baby get the memo?
When you were preparing for this breastfeeding thing, you were worried it might hurt. Your sister-in-law worried you that your baby might feed ‘all the time’. You were concerned how you were going to...
View ArticleA first Christmas
Ilustration by JoJo Ford It’s your baby’s first Christmas. It may be hard at the moment to picture exactly how that might go. Usually, it seems beautifully predictable: certain family members,...
View ArticleFlat nipples
Two mothers have flat nipples.One, in her first conversation about breastfeeding antenatally, was told by a health professional looking at her nipples, “You won’t get any milk out of those!”The second...
View ArticleBreastfeeding after 12 months and dental decay
Continuing to breastfeed after the first few months can bring some challenges. Sadly, one of the biggest struggles can be dealing with the lack of education in wider society. You might imagine that at...
View Article"Don't offer, don't refuse."
When a mother decides it’s time to end breastfeeding and she looks for information online, she’s likely to come across the phrase, “Don’t offer, Don’t refuse.” Many sources describe this as a ‘weaning...
View Article"It's like a switch has flipped": The older baby nursing strike
This article is focused on breast refusal that sometimes happens at around 8-12 months (although those ages are not set in stone). We often use the term “nursing strike” to describe this experience....
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